It’s during the ceremony, I recommend that you wear your engagement ring on your right hand. Or if it doesn’t fit, or you don’t want to do that, you can give it to someone trusted like your maid of honor, and she can give it back to you after the ceremony so you can add it to your stack.
Just say no nicely. So you’re being offered a piece of jewelry that is meaningful to the person who’s offering it, but might not be as meaningful to you. I have two ideas.
This one is tough, and while they think they’re being very sweet, they’re putting you in a tough situation.
As a people pleaser myself, I totally understand wanting to honor and be super supportive of family members who want to gift you things, especially family heirlooms. I think there’s also this layer of protection that we don’t have to feel pressured to do everything our family wants us to do.
A great way that you could incorporate a family heirloom that maybe you don’t want to necessarily wear on your wedding day is to include it in that beautiful flatlay shot.
So that photographer shot that they get of the shoes and the rings. Maybe there’s a moment and a little spot on that flatlay for this very special piece of jewelry. So that way it’s still a part of your day and your family member still feels and sees that and it feels really special. But you don’t have to necessarily wear it because it may clash with your style.
But I still think it’s important to honor it in a beautiful and respectful way.
If it’s a ring or earrings, you can tie it with a ribbon to your bouquet. Don’t forget to take it off before you throw your bouquet. if it’s a bracelet or a necklace. Maybe you could incorporate it into your hairstyle, either like around your ponytail or under your bun. If it’s large, you can maybe use it as kind of like a brooch style and add it to the groom’s outfit in some way, especially if it’s from his side of the family.
But yeah, typically people will, if they’re not able to draw the line and say like, No, this is not what I see for myself on my wedding day. You can add it into your bouquet or just take photos with it as take it off.
I have two ideas. One is to say, No thank you and you can say No thank you. You just have to do it really, really nicely. Say, Oh, I so appreciate you offering that. That is so kind and generous of you. However, I need to say no, thank you. The fact that you would even offer it is so touching.
I can’t thank you enough. The other option is to take it and use it. But use it how you want. If you don’t want to have it super visible on the wedding day and in all the pictures, maybe wear this piece at the rehearsal dinner or maybe wear this piece if you change your outfit during the reception or just say no nicely.
To So and Florals. That’s my biggest advice for cutting costs.
It’s during the ceremony, I recommend that you wear your engagement ring on your right hand. Or if it doesn’t fit, or you don’t want to do that, you can give it to someone trusted like your maid of honor, and she can give it back to you after the ceremony so you can add it to your stack.
So how you keep your necklace and necklace clasp from making its way to the front on your wedding day is you use a touch of eyelash glue on the clasp, and you stick it to the back of your neck where you want it to rest. That way that little bit of tacky keeps it from spinning around and ruining your photos on your big day.
I recommend that you have the wedding bands ready to go at least one month before the day you say I do. If you’re doing custom designed bands, those can take anywhere from four to twelve weeks to create. Or if you’re purchasing something that’s ready made, sometimes there are shipping delays. You don’t want to wait till the last second in order to have those bands because they’re kind of a big deal on the big day.
So if you are one of the people that have been blessed with a gemstone or diamond on the larger size in your engagement ring, and a lot of people have been asking you how many carats is it? And you are just so over it, what I like to say is big enough? And hopefully they’ll just leave it at that and get the hint that you don’t want to talk about it.
If it was me, I would just say, Can I send you a 1099 for being all up my business? Now, I think it can be an uncomfortable conversation, and I don’t think anyone means anything by it. It is snobby regard. I think typically they could just be curious. Maybe they’re looking at rings and they just really like it and they want to know what to ask for.
A way to kind of calm this insecurity of answering this question just because it is uncomfortable, even if it’s really large or really small. Just say, actually, I have no idea. It wasn’t important to us. We didn’t talk about it. Just try to lead them away from even digging further. So just to say you don’t know. It’s simple.
And send them that 1099, if you need to.
I get this question all the time. So eternity bands are beautiful. You have diamonds covering every single inch of the band. But what people don’t realize is that when you don’t have just a plain space of metal, you can’t resize the ring. If you need to go up in size, you’re going to have to completely remake the ring. And that means taking all the stones out, melting down the gold, recasting it and resetting them, which is expensive. With eternity bands, you can size down slightly by adding little sizing beads to the inside. But if you’re getting an eternity band, you need to know this beforehand. So you can either save some money in case you need to be resized, or you’re not just upset that you didn’t know it when you made the purchase.
Please don’t take your rings on your honeymoon. Leave them at home in a safe. There are just so many things that can go wrong when you’re traveling with jewelry in general. It can make you a target. You could lose it in the ocean. I mean, there’s so many things that can happen, and it’s not worth it. Because this is such a sentimental piece that you all just got married with. I recommend just wearing a silicone band or getting a fake Cz Amazon replica and taking that instead. Because it’s just not worth losing it to have it with you for however long you’re gone.
Your jewelry is going to be in so many photos on your wedding day, especially if you do the detail photos in the flat. Lays you want to make sure that they are looking their best. You can get them cleaned professionally by a jeweler a few days before, or you can clean it yourself the morning of using dish soap, a toothbrush and some warm water. But after you clean it, make sure you don’t wear it while you’re getting your hair done or getting your makeup done, because the hairspray is going to get on there, the powders are going on there, and it’s not going to look its best. So set it aside in its ring box for the photographer to do their detailed shots. And then after you’re all done up and ready, you can put it back on and then go into the ceremony with them looking sparkly and brand new.
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You’ve got 3-5 seconds to stop the viewer’s scroll. Be creative… start with a phrase like:
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Give them your hot take, and don’t hold anything back.
check out how Sal nailed it in this video and so did Megan in this one and Nichole told it straight (from her car).
Do you feel like the industry charges more “because it’s a wedding” and they know it’s an emotional purchase?
Do companies think that they can charge more for weddings since the bride and groom may be willing to spend more on their dream wedding?
Hey wedding pros – is this higher price tag justified? Why? Do you charge more for your service if it is a wedding?
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