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Who’s Planning The Wedding?

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We’ve got a question… who’s planning the wedding?
 
The next question is… why?
 
What’s the deal with “the bride” being the only one making decisions? Is it the wedding industry’s fault? Do wedding emails, contracts, and communications unfairly focus on “the bride”?
 
It’s also probably the first time you’ve worked together as a couple towards a goal – making decisions about money, workload, and priorities. This can bring up many challenges that you’ve never faced before.
 
The high of being engaged has turned into the low of having to plan this f’ing thing all by yourself. We’re hearing from so many of our members that they’re fighting more than ever.
 
It’s easier to plan a wedding with friends. Share your experiences. You’re not alone.
How’s it going for you as a couple during the planning process?

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We’ve got a question… who’s planning the wedding?
 
The next question is… why?
 
What’s the deal with “the bride” being the only one making decisions? Is it the wedding industry’s fault? Do wedding emails, contracts, and communications unfairly focus on “the bride”?
 
It’s also probably the first time you’ve worked together as a couple towards a goal – making decisions about money, workload, and priorities. This can bring up many challenges that you’ve never faced before.
 
The high of being engaged has turned into the low of having to plan this f’ing thing all by yourself. We’re hearing from so many of our members that they’re fighting more than ever.
 
It’s easier to plan a wedding with friends. Share your experiences. You’re not alone.
How’s it going for you as a couple during the planning process?

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    Robin Sloan, The Uncorked ProjectVerifiedRobin Sloan, The Uncorked Project

    I was engaged for 9 months before our wedding. We lived in a 600 square foot apartment in Lincoln Park neighborhood in Chicago.  Just a tiny bit bigger than a studio.  There was nowhere to hide.  Even though we have lived together for 2 years before we got engaged, those 9 months of planning the wedding were STRESSFUL!  I felt like I was doing all the planning work...  and he was watching tv.  Can you relate?

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Q: Is there really a wedding mark up?

Do you feel like the industry charges more “because it’s a wedding” and they know it’s an emotional purchase?

Do companies think that they can charge more for weddings since the bride and groom may be willing to spend more on their dream wedding?

Hey wedding pros – is this higher price tag justified? Why? Do you charge more for your service if it is a wedding?

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    Robin Sloan, The Uncorked ProjectVerifiedRobin Sloan, The Uncorked Project

    I have been asked this so many times... does the wedding industry inflate prices when they hear it's a wedding?

    Here is my honest answer (as a former wedding photographer)... NO. Did I charge more for a wedding than a 50th birthday party or a family portrait session? Yes, absolutely. I charged A LOT more for a wedding.

    Was I taking advantage of the emotional sell? Absolutely not.

    The main reasons I charged more for a wedding were: the unseen amount of work involved in the 12+ months leading up to the wedding, the skill level needed on the day, the INTENSE pressure to create perfect "portfolio level work" no matter what the reality of the situation- but mostly it is to compensate for the time AFTER the wedding in post production.

    Little known fact about wedding photography - the real job is sitting at a computer editing photos. Photographers spend many hours behind the computer carefully selecting and editing photos. They make adjustments, crop, and adjust colors to ensure each image it's best. Don't forget the time it takes for batching, renaming, importing, exporting and uploading the photos and preparing them for delivery.

    Do you think this justifies why photographers charge more for weddings than for other types of shoots?

    Cody Pettengill

    Couldn’t agree more! And on the videography side its an absolute ton of data + editing discipline.

    Its a double sided coin- weddings are extremely high pressure but also high reward when we nail it.

    Our products (photo video) in particular are the only thing that genuinely will last forever . Having fun and ALSO nailing the product is worth the price of entry and frankly more.

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