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How to get the best getting ready photos?

Q: How to get the best getting ready photos?

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VIDEO SUMMARY

Keep the damn room clean. I am Kelsey. I am the owner and principal photographer for Captured by Kelsey, based in Ann Arbor, Michigan. And if you really want to up level your getting ready photos, there are a few tips I have for you. Number one, anyone who is getting helping you get dressed should be dressed before you. It just makes for a much more put together image when everyone is dressed, rather than like half dressed or hair not done, makeup done, whatever. The other big one is to keep the room clean, or at least a corner of the room clean. And preferably the corner of the room that’s near the window because we want that natural light to just really help you glow and look beautiful. But I always suggest if you can get like a suite so that hair and makeup is being done in one room and the actual getting dressed gets done in another room, that’s ideal. Or if the place that you’re getting ready at doesn’t have suites, then maybe book two rooms and you use one room for all of the actual stuff so that you can have a clean and beautiful space to get into your wedding dress.

How do I look thinner in photos?

Q: How do I look thinner in photos?

VIDEO SUMMARY

Oh, I can totally make you look thinner, but it’s not how you think. And you have to tell me about this well before I take your pictures, because here’s the thing. I am not going to Photoshop you to look a different way, because I don’t do that. But also, how insulting is that to think that I know how you would prefer to look, how you look in your head, in what ways you have decided that you don’t meet the beauty ideal. I’m not going to make those decisions for you. I actually have a question on my questionnaire that you answer six or eight weeks before the wedding that says, what are you insecure about? And it says, you don’t have to tell me. You don’t have to type it here. You can tell me in person, but we all have these things. For me, personally, it is my belly. I gain all my weight there. And I cannot tell you the number of times I’ve been asked if I’m pregnant when I have not been in many, many years. But I need to know. There are ways that I can pose you. There are places I can hold the camera. There are ways I can compose the photos. There are actions I can have you do that will emphasize or deemphasize various things. But I am not for 1 second going to assume that you believe that there’s anything wrong with your body because of how it deviates from whatever we’re currently seeing on Instagram.

Do we really need an engagement photo session?

Q: Do we really need an engagement photo session?

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So I feel pretty torn on this one if you need an engagement session or not. So first off, on the end of needing an engagement session, it can be helpful just in eliminating some stress. On the wedding day, your photographer is going to come into the room. You’re going to have worked with this person before. That’s going to make you feel a little bit more comfortable. Outside of that, your photographer is going to have a better idea of how to work with you to as a couple. This is going to speed up your portraits a lot just because the photographer is not trying to figure out, okay, how does this couple work? What do they respond to? So it can be helpful in that way, and then it’s also helpful in that when you put all your photos on the wall, you’re going to have just pictures of you and your wedding garb. An engagement session gives you some great photos on your wall where you’re dressed more like normal people. Now, on the end of needing an engagement session, you don’t need anything when it comes to weddings. That’s just a lie that you’re being sold by the wedding industry and photographers like myself. It’s a way we can make more money, so that’s great for us. I would never do an engagement session if it’s not something you actually care about or are excited about it’s, you know, you’re wanting some photos for your walls for save the dates, wanting to feel a little more comfortable on your wedding day or it’s included in a photographer’s collection, absolutely, go for it. But man, don’t do anything just because a bridal blog told you you needed it. You don’t need an engagement session. It’s not going to ruin your wedding. You’re still going to get great photos if you hired a competent photographer. So I hope that helps.

Are second photographers really necessary or are they a way for the photographer to increase the price?

Q: Are second photographers really necessary or are they a way for the photographer to increase the price?

VIDEO SUMMARY

My answer to this question might surprise you.

No, I don’t think having a second photographer is absolutely necessary. I also don’t think having a first photographer is absolutely necessary or having a wedding in the way that we do them now is absolutely necessary. These are luxuries, is the truth.

Whoever started the myth that whether or not you should get a second photographer depends on the number of your guests. They weren’t a photographer. It makes no sense.

70% of the time on this, my answer is going to be no. You don’t need a second photographer.

How I would answer this question depends on what your wedding timeline looks like.

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Ready to answer our couple’s burning questions?

Here are some tips and tricks to film a great video that stops the scroll:

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Start with a hook.

You’ve got 3-5 seconds to stop the viewer’s scroll. Be creative… start with a phrase like:

  • Oh hell no, just no…
  • Absolutely not…
  • Yes, yes, yes! You should do this…
  • It depends on one very important thing…

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Give a super quick intro.

We’ll put your name and bio in the title and links, so you can say something more general like:

“I’m Robin, a photographer in Chicago and after shooting 500 weddings…”
Or
“I’m not only a wedding planner in Chicago, but a newlywed myself…”

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Answer away!

Give them your hot take, and don’t hold anything back.

Examples of what we are looking for:

check out how Sal nailed it in this video and so did Megan in this one and Nichole told it straight (from her car).

Tips for filming

Filming vertically on your phone.

TikTok is vertical for good reason - Gen Z have spoken!

Good audio is more important than good video.

Find a quiet room (that isn’t an echoey bathroom!).

Make sure your face is bright enough.

Standing near a large window or lamp is helpful - You want to be brighter than your background.

Nothing works better than a good story.

If you have any experiences you can share to help answer the question, go for it!

Bring
the energy!

Down an espresso, pump yourself up, and let the answers pour out! Our couples want as much honesty as they can get.

Featured Question

Q: Is there really a wedding mark up?

Do you feel like the industry charges more “because it’s a wedding” and they know it’s an emotional purchase?

Do companies think that they can charge more for weddings since the bride and groom may be willing to spend more on their dream wedding?

Hey wedding pros – is this higher price tag justified? Why? Do you charge more for your service if it is a wedding?

This is a taboo topic, whispered but not discussed… until now.

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