Sometimes the wedding planning becomes the focus and it’s easy to forget the “why”. Getting married is more than planning a big party, it’s about tying your life to another persons… from legal documents to your emergency contact in your phone, it’s a big deal.
WATCH: “I had a panic attack the night before my wedding”
*This a personal confession from a bride that had a $$$$$$$ wedding that went “perfectly”
My husband will probably cringe if he ever sees this, but I want to share what happened on our first night on our honeymoon.
The day after our wedding we flew to St. Martin. I am claustrophobic and do not like to fly - or be in a place I cannot get out of. The flights were a lot for me. And then we arrived on this tiny beautiful island. I watched the plane fly off and felt trapped.
That night I had an awful nightmare that I was trapped in a room with no way out.... it was more than the flights and island, it was being married. It felt so legally binding! Honestly, that was the first time I thought more about marriage than the wedding.
Chere & Tony's story really resonated with me, so I wanted to make a video to help other couples going through a similar experience.
*spoiler alert... still married to my very understanding husband... the first day of our honeymoon he had to say things like "it's really no big deal, we can always get a quickie divorce..." Laughter is often the best way to calm a racing heart.